Japanese media Secret women fall in love with the same person with girlfriends real thoughts

Female friends  Wedding Dresses together for a long time not only circle of friends is also likely to be very similar to falling in love with a male, female, and if you fell in love with a male friend how would you do? Japan Mynavi website on February 10 Journal article disclosed for the 22 to 34-year-old career women investigation on this issue, let us take a look at female friends really think.

Q. If you and your friends fell in love with a male, you choose friendship or love?

"Friendship" 63.0%

"Love," 37.0%

More than 60% of women chose friendship in reply. So, let's hear were reasons for choosing female friendship or love it.

Friendship is life

· "Love can not predict how long, but friendship is a lifetime thing." (30 years of age, school education industry, text planning)

· "Love can always talk, trusted friends very rare" (29-year-old, retail, sales and service personnel)

· "Love relationship may suddenly end, after the end will not be able to continue, but there is a problem but friendship fix" (29 years old, in other industries, administrative staff)

Many women believe that love is hard for a long time but it will be accompanied by a lifetime friends with each other, so choose the friendship. Trusted friend is the treasure of our lives.

Do not want to cause strife

· "I have not had a similar experience, but with a man and a good friend to grab definitely feel like a cruel battlefield" (33 years of age, other occupations, other positions)

· "Himself from the chaos of the relationship is the easiest way to climb down, so everyone will be able to establish a satisfactory relationship" (33-year-old textile fiber industry, sales and service personnel)

* "And a woman, but a terrible enemy" (29-year-old human resources industry, administrative professionals)

There are many choices of women feel that if ignored friendship friendship priority of love, then it may be involved in a brutal fight. So far no friends talk about anything, then suddenly become the enemy, but quite scary.

So, nearly forty percent of women choose love what reason answer it? Let us together look.

Unable to suppress fall in love heart

· "When faced with that situation, you will not be thinking blindly into them, unable to suppress his heart in love" (24 years of age, medical benefits industry professionals)

· "I do not want to let myself regret, can not stop like his heart" (27-year-old, precision machinery industry, administrative professionals)

Although some women decide friendship is very important, but they can not suppress a person's heart to love. After all, some people and friends like the same person after the abandon love will regret.

Woman's friendship unreliable

· "Friendship unreliable. Friend after all, is an outsider. And because love and get married, the couple's relationship is indeed life, so love is more important." (28 years of age, other industries, other positions)

· "After the last married or have children, female friends friendship among the most not long." (29-year-old, IT industry, creative design staff)

Indeed, some women believe that the student spent together between girlfriends friendship and not too strong, after marriage or children, between female friends will alienate each other. It is also beyond reproach.

Friendship and love in the middle to make a choice depending on the degree of trust women like men, and the extent and friends. If you really faced with such a situation, it may be precisely and friends playing a dignified manner, and do not fail even if the love of friendship is the ideal state undermine it. But be sure to choose one of two words, which is very difficult.