Forgive yourself or others, is basically a choice toward live.
"To this, I will never forgive the mother!"
"I can not forgive myself!" Such words sound familiar? We do not forgive someone, in fact tantamount to saying: I do not want to take action to improve the situation, I would rather live in the past, but the results are blaming others (or yourself) head. Would not forgive himself, he has been immersed in the sense of guilt among bear unnecessary psychological torture.
My friend, Christmas will not please me, I would not forgive him, I suffer. He would not have stomach ulcers, do not sleep, not get angry, your mouth will not be bitter, I have reflected. No wonder the sages have told me: "Forgive those who offend us!" Only in this way can often Celebrex happy and healthy, keep the pain is the main cause of the disease, because gas bitter heart will lead to the agony of the flesh.
In addition, we identified as one wrong others, they are responsible for make us happy, we will not take responsibility. Blame someone else will not have any results. Starting from stop to blame someone else the moment, we will take action for improvement. Blame someone else is an excuse for escapism, not an excuse for inaction.
Choose to forgive, the situation would be through a magical track changes. When we change, others will follow the change. We change the attitude of others. We revised the views of things at the same time, others will respond. With our new expectations
Not easy to forgive, forgive myself for it more difficult. A lot of life for some of the shortcomings of self-righteous, mental and physical punishment. Some people overeating, some people intentionally starve, some people drink drunk unconscious, some people deliberately destroy all relationships, some people a lifetime of poverty or illness. May have a belief that behind all these sufferings, insisted: "I have done a lot of things should not happen", "I am guilty," or "I do not deserve to enjoy healthy and happy." Make a survey of people who are sick, you may will find them, I believe they should live a healthy and happy little surprising.
2012年4月20日星期五
That all blank.
He gently sigh, perhaps we are unable to give each other the next
person.
Perhaps both have lost their ability to love and be loved.
Two time-ravaged beyond recognition disability.
She found that she can only love a man in an instant. Gradually become selfish.
May be imprudent to hand over the body. But never easily surrender his soul.
That moment, you finally found, that once beloved people.
Early in the day farewell, had disappeared in this world.
Hearts of love and longing, just to belong to remember they once had.
I think some things are forgotten, some things that you can remember,
Some things can willingly, some things have been powerless.
I love you, this is my catastrophe.
In this moment, all the symbols and questions were missing
Only under a snowy blank screen.
That really have had.
That all blank.
Perhaps both have lost their ability to love and be loved.
Two time-ravaged beyond recognition disability.
She found that she can only love a man in an instant. Gradually become selfish.
May be imprudent to hand over the body. But never easily surrender his soul.
That moment, you finally found, that once beloved people.
Early in the day farewell, had disappeared in this world.
Hearts of love and longing, just to belong to remember they once had.
I think some things are forgotten, some things that you can remember,
Some things can willingly, some things have been powerless.
I love you, this is my catastrophe.
In this moment, all the symbols and questions were missing
Only under a snowy blank screen.
That really have had.
That all blank.
2012年4月19日星期四
Has been very quiet
When people come to this world, but to do his own period of
practice, the so-called good and bad, joys and sorrows of the clutch, but the
period of foolish thoughts, and just take things too hard, or not yet want to
open.
At this time, the world is very small, small enough to solipsism, the other a foil when I die, the world is destroyed, for they were born.
Want to open, it loses its own, the world is diverse, I lost out. Sometimes feel that such a world outside, I know I am less than a realm to the realm, is integrated into the salt into the sea, no trace
I was holding a cup of boiling water, it is cold to go, such as the World moment of quiet, but in the end, etc. very quiet, quiet to-tower, to the old, I was sad it? But I think I have forgotten the sadness for a long time.
I want a cup of hot water does not always go cold, a total worth of books, I do not see the end of the total on the road, less than the end of, there is always hope.
I hope an old harp, I hold, not bombs
I hope the snow, snow full of white plum and lotus opened the road to make the implicit incense at lightly Xuehai between
I like the sunny cold and windy weather, Baiyun mortal, powdery snow flying, cruel and beautiful.
A fairy wrote a poem, but it is erased. She does not want the world to know I have, but you see, now we only know this fairy, her name is Xu Feiqiong.
A lot of things unconsciously become a joke, but could have been very naive to think that it is a long epic.
At this time, the world is very small, small enough to solipsism, the other a foil when I die, the world is destroyed, for they were born.
Want to open, it loses its own, the world is diverse, I lost out. Sometimes feel that such a world outside, I know I am less than a realm to the realm, is integrated into the salt into the sea, no trace
I was holding a cup of boiling water, it is cold to go, such as the World moment of quiet, but in the end, etc. very quiet, quiet to-tower, to the old, I was sad it? But I think I have forgotten the sadness for a long time.
I want a cup of hot water does not always go cold, a total worth of books, I do not see the end of the total on the road, less than the end of, there is always hope.
I hope an old harp, I hold, not bombs
I hope the snow, snow full of white plum and lotus opened the road to make the implicit incense at lightly Xuehai between
I like the sunny cold and windy weather, Baiyun mortal, powdery snow flying, cruel and beautiful.
A fairy wrote a poem, but it is erased. She does not want the world to know I have, but you see, now we only know this fairy, her name is Xu Feiqiong.
A lot of things unconsciously become a joke, but could have been very naive to think that it is a long epic.
2012年4月18日星期三
Aalsmeer world's most expensive flowers home
In the Netherlands, regardless of the day, romantic always originated in the
flower. Only conscious of the Aalsmeer Flower Market, the city will begin the
day's operation. The Aalsmeer auction business in 1912, today, this covers an
area of 715,000 square meters of flowers line has become the world's largest
flower auction market. All those who have the most beautiful and rare flowers,
are all here first debut before divergence to various cities to.
Usually at 6:00 in the morning auction has already begun to 8:00 before the end, we will not miss the most fresh flowers and feminine appearance. The door has not been the first to be drunk by the fragrant aroma of flowers, after a few hundred square meters of small potted District, suddenly - even the most romantic movie had not depicted the front of the magnificent scene: 8000 flower garden together. colored flowers covered the hall with a tender recollections on the soil, the air is flowers completely covered. The daily turnover of flowers enough to have 14 million flowers and 1 million potted plants, was the source of the world's colorful
Usually at 6:00 in the morning auction has already begun to 8:00 before the end, we will not miss the most fresh flowers and feminine appearance. The door has not been the first to be drunk by the fragrant aroma of flowers, after a few hundred square meters of small potted District, suddenly - even the most romantic movie had not depicted the front of the magnificent scene: 8000 flower garden together. colored flowers covered the hall with a tender recollections on the soil, the air is flowers completely covered. The daily turnover of flowers enough to have 14 million flowers and 1 million potted plants, was the source of the world's colorful
2012年4月17日星期二
Learn to be brave
When I was young, he always said: "Son, you have to brave."
"Brave" seems to be a spiritual medicine, chew, swallow, can be used to deal with the shadows on the curtains at night in trembling laugh; can be used to deal with summer leisurely fall from the sky that is called "the hanged ghosts" budworm; can be used to deal with winter early in the morning had to leave the bed that moment stuck to the human blood go cold; can be used against those who cause me any trouble, and forced me to tall children; can be used against those terrifying teacher their mouths, and, insignificant to announce, solemn criteria of this world.
But I still did not want to understand why I never do not hate those things I fear, but I so resent the "brave". Perhaps because of "fear" is too strong, so I had selected between one punches either to pinch; may also be because of "fear" from my body, completely belong to me, "brave" is an intruder, I said I have to chew it and swallow it bitter.
"Brave" seems to be a spiritual medicine, chew, swallow, can be used to deal with the shadows on the curtains at night in trembling laugh; can be used to deal with summer leisurely fall from the sky that is called "the hanged ghosts" budworm; can be used to deal with winter early in the morning had to leave the bed that moment stuck to the human blood go cold; can be used against those who cause me any trouble, and forced me to tall children; can be used against those terrifying teacher their mouths, and, insignificant to announce, solemn criteria of this world.
But I still did not want to understand why I never do not hate those things I fear, but I so resent the "brave". Perhaps because of "fear" is too strong, so I had selected between one punches either to pinch; may also be because of "fear" from my body, completely belong to me, "brave" is an intruder, I said I have to chew it and swallow it bitter.
2012年4月15日星期日
Warmth of the future
Lot of time, but just the right moment. Perhaps a word, perhaps just
when I heard the lyrics, or a classic movie lines. Always inadvertently
grab your heart and let you use another person's grief experience
sadness, the joy of another person to experience their own joy.
In fact, life has a lot of people, you walk in the same space-time, just parallel to never intersect. Sometimes, just a good time to let your thoughts collided and resonate. Have to say, in fact, this is a fate.
So we always have to cherish such a fate.
Who knows this world there is another, perhaps he did not now you happy.
In fact, life has a lot of people, you walk in the same space-time, just parallel to never intersect. Sometimes, just a good time to let your thoughts collided and resonate. Have to say, in fact, this is a fate.
So we always have to cherish such a fate.
Who knows this world there is another, perhaps he did not now you happy.
2012年4月14日星期六
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